There are a number of software engineering skills out there and I’m here to tell you to stop using them.

The three most popular plugins for software engineering skills are:

• https://skills.addy.ie/
• https://github.com/obra/superpowers
• https://www.aihero.dev/skills

If you have never used such plugins before, I recommend trying one out. If you used one for any non-trivial amount of time, I’d suggest you uninstall it and recreate your own version.

Creating software, like creating anything, is a deeply personal process. To truly master and own software development, you need to also take ownership of the development process. And if you don’t own the agentic skills you use, how can you claim you have ownership of the process?

Summary

When a developer can already describe what they want, they simply build it. But often, we don’t know what we want. This essay describes how to use AI to design the thing we want to build through an interview process.

Details

Three tiers of knowing what you want to build

• Clear -> Build. No interview.
• Fuzzy -> Interactive Design (non-trivial, but requires planning)
• Unknown -> Complex project. Separate approach.

Interactive Design

1. Invoke. The user asks AI to do interactive design for a job. The instructions to AI (skill) are the model of the interactive design process described here, and the AI guides the user through the process so that the process is applied consistently.
2. Dispatch. The AI sizes the job, shows the user where they are, and asks: Is Interactive Design the thing you want?
3. Interview. One kind of interview or several, until the job is clear (see Kinds of interviews). How the AI does it is up to the AI.
4. Confirm domain vocabulary. The AI and the user agree on what things are called, in the user’s terms. This part is essential.
5. Surface consequences. The AI asks high-impact questions and helps the user see around corners. The AI decides whether this step is worth running, and the user can always skip it (“I don’t care about these”).
6. Review the result. Summary (less than 4 sentences), details, decisions, not in scope. The user reviews until satisfied.
7. Produce a tech spec. The AI suggests where the written artifact goes, and the user approves or edits. The written artifact is called a tech spec, which is described later.

Kinds of interviews

Not all interviews are the same. Not all situations require the same interview approach and developers don’t often know which one they need, and one interview may naturally flow into another.

I played around with the Nemotron Lightning 30b model this week. It is one of the most affordable models on the market, at approximately 25% of the price of OpenAI’s ChatGPT Luna model. At the time of this article, Nemotron Lightning costs just $0.05 per million input tokens and $0.20 per million output tokens.

I tested it for my usecase of proofreading my writings. And, well, it did terribly. I had a coding agent evaluate it against DeepSeek v4p1 Flash (also ~4x the price) as a baseline, and what my AI said about Nemotron

I spent much of yesterday pouring my mental energy into designing a better AI-assisted code review process. Then I threw it away.

What I learned is that you shouldn’t build every idea you have. I thought I had found a great way to improve the code review process. When I tried to say exactly what the system would improve, the answer was: not much. It was too complicated for the improvement it offered over an agent skill. I didn’t notice this when I was designing it. I had to step away and stop thinking about it before I could see the full cost of building it.

I started using AI coding agents in March of 2025. I’ve always had personal projects before. But adopting AI agents completely changed the scale of my codebase. I am writing tools, web apps, and automations that I never would’ve had the time or energy to write myself. Today, I have more AI generated code in my codebase than code I wrote myself.

This is what Claude says about the growth of my private repos.

AI And Software Development

When ChatGPT was released in Nov of 2022, it was already a better programmer than me. By December, I used it consistently whenever I wrote code. In 2023, I relied on ChatGPT to create an online puzzle game for my kids. At this time, my coding was mostly architecture decisions, code reviews, refactoring, and testing. I was still writing some of the code, as it was faster to make small changes by hand instead of copying the right context into ChatGPT. By early 2025, I started to use Cursor, one of the first coding agents. At this point, I stopped writing code completely. Coding agents solved the context problems of Chatbots, as the agent had complete access to your file system and code base, and can autonomously explore your computer to populate its own context. By that point, my involvement was purely architectural, requirement definition, and testing. I only review AI-written code insofar as to understand the decisions it made, not to identify bugs or offer improvements.